”Keiten Aijin: Rediscovering the Japanese Spirit and Connections with Others While Living Abroad”

Living in a foreign country often brings unexpected challenges—and profound lessons. Language barriers, cultural differences, and unfamiliar social norms can make life feel isolating. Yet these very experiences can lead us to rediscover the values we once took for granted.

One of the principles that has guided me through such times is the Japanese phrase “Keiten Aijin (敬天愛人)”—literally, “Revere Heaven, Love People.” Its wisdom has shaped my life, especially as I navigated life abroad, helping me reconnect with what truly matters: respect, compassion, and the bonds we share with others.

The Meaning of “Keiten Aijin（敬天愛人）”

One principle that has guided me through such times is the Japanese phrase “Keiten Aijin (敬天愛人)”—literally, “Revere Heaven, Love People.” For me, this phrase has long been a personal compass, guiding my life. Living abroad has given me the chance to reflect on its meaning more deeply.

Here, “Heaven” (Ten, 天) does not only refer to the sky, but represents the larger forces beyond our control—nature, universal laws, or the unseen principles that govern life. To “respect Heaven” (Keiten, 敬天) means to live with humility and awareness of these greater forces, recognising that we are part of something larger than ourselves.

“Love People” (Aijin, 愛人) means to treat those around you with care, understanding, and sincerity. It is not about imposing your own values, but about respecting others’ perspectives and wishing for their well-being and growth. By practising both Keiten and Aijin together, one can cultivate a calm mind, nurture meaningful relationships, and build a life that is authentic and fulfilling.

Kazuo Inamori and the Spirit of Keiten Aijin

When I worked at Japan Airlines, Chairman Kazuo Inamori brought this principle to life during the company’s critical rebuilding phase.

He valued each employee and integrated Keiten Aijin into the company culture. For example, the in-house magazine Keiten Aijin regularly emphasised “management with heart” and the importance of valuing people, leaving a lasting impression on the staff.

Although I never had the chance to work directly with him, his attitude and words taught me a great deal. I often wonder how much more I could have learned if I had the opportunity to collaborate with him.

Life in the UK and New Realisations

Moving to the UK was a transformative experience. I faced language barriers, cultural differences, and unfamiliar work and social environments, which sometimes left me feeling isolated.

In that solitude, I realised that the respect and compassion I naturally carried in Japan had been set aside.

I asked myself repeatedly:

"What do I want to learn and leave behind in this country?

” As a Japanese person, or as an individual, what is my purpose here?”

One day, the answer became clear:

“No matter how people behave, I will continue to respect and sincerely engage with others.”

This was not about etiquette or surface-level manners, but about reaffirming my core values and living authentically.

Spreading Harmony Through Your Own Actions

Once I committed to treating others with respect and sincerity, I noticed remarkable changes.

My inner calm and positivity grew, and my daily life became lighter and more enjoyable. I smiled more, felt less irritation, and experienced a newfound sense of ease.

Interestingly, others around me began to respond in kind. Simple greetings and the tone of conversations softened, and I felt genuine respect and kindness returned to me.

This is closely related to a psychological concept called “projection.” Projection occurs when our unconscious thoughts and emotions are reflected in how we perceive and interact with others.

• When we approach others calmly and respectfully, they tend to respond similarly.

• If we are anxious or hostile, those feelings can be projected, making others seem cold or unfriendly.

  
  

By cultivating respect and compassion internally, we not only stabilise our own mind but also positively influence the social environment around us.

I strongly believe that respecting others can create a chain reaction, spreading goodwill from one person to the next.

Some may say: “Many people have tried this, yet conflicts and wars still exist.”

To that, I reply: “Better than nothing.”

While one person’s influence may be small, as Prince Shōtoku said, “Harmony is to be valued” (和を以て貴しと為す). Respect for others is essential to building this precious harmony. Even small efforts can contribute to creating a world filled with respect and understanding.

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